Life can be such a kick in the pants!

Are you a caregiver, parent, step parent or anybody who is caring for another human. It is really hard sometimes. You might have days where your heart hurts and then suddenly a glimmer of hope and then you have to go back to work. There is so much to do. So much to feel. Is there enough time to get it all done or fit it in. You've become the multi tasking junkie that deprives yourself of sleep and uses every hour of a 24 hour period to do the most you possibly can. Am I alone in this feeling?

I sometimes wonder if others feel so burdened with this loving act. I love who I take care of with all my heart, but the reality of it is that is really hard. Someday's it is a raise your hand to the sky and curse kind of day! Am I wrong to feel this way? Am I wrong to feel so many emotions though out the day that I wonder if I am "ok" by world standards? Am I loosing my grip, my edge, my joy?

If people truly understood the reality of caring for another would we still do it?........Don't feel like you have to answer out loud. I sure as heck won't be answering out loud. But I will ponder it. I work hard every day to keep my kids going. I work hard to push them beyond their "special needs" I work and fight like hell to be a good enough parent that they will look back and realize they don't actually hate me. I know I didn't really hate my parents but still, I should not have taken my amazing child hood for granted. Why am I rambling on like this you ask? Well, because I am learning that we are all imperfect and everyone is doing the best we can even those who we care about and care for. We all deserve to feel loved and valued and good enough.....and gosh darn it people like me! If you do not know the reference we can't be friends, JK JK!!! Seriously just kidding. If you don't know the reference it is time to brush up on your SNL classics.

You deserve a break because you care and because your trying your best....and gosh darn it people like you! There I did it again! ha ha.

So here is a a break for you. When you use the code: CARE4U you get 20% off your entire purchase.

You more than deserve it.

As my sweet husband says, "I hope your day is awesome and love ya".

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